avoid use of undefined ABSL_HAVE_ELF_MEM_IMAGE

this avoids e.g. on macOS:

In file included from abseil-cpp/absl/debugging/internal/elf_mem_image.cc:18:
abseil-cpp/absl/debugging/internal/elf_mem_image.h:37:5: error: 'ABSL_HAVE_ELF_MEM_IMAGE' is not defined, evaluates to 0 [-Werror,-Wundef]
    ^
1 error generated.