issue #1367

by default, run all tests during npm test, and emit clear errors when dependencies (mysql or phantomjs) aren't installed

update package.json with new dependencies.  update getting started instructions with how to use npm to install deps.  ref package.json from the README rather than duplicating information.  closes #60 (equivalent).

initial stubbing of db.js tests, also generalize db.js so that the path where the database resides may be configured

move to bcrypt for password hashing and storage.  This satisfies @benadida's crazy paranoia, so it closes #35.  In other news, the 'forgot password' flow is now complete (this change solves the case where you forget your password for an email and reset it with precisely the same password --- because auth is salted, the registration_status call will delay 'complete' until you actually click through.  tl;dr; - closes #18